something that happened in one random family.

The grandpa had been working damn hard over the years.. when i say damn hard.. i MEAN it.. working 2 shifts per day, returning home during breaktime to eat something simple and plain and rushed to the next working place. He was considered healthy except with a little diabetis and vision problem.

He didnt not enjoyed his life to the fullest. no overseas (except to msia to pay respect to the late family of his, no posh resturants for him, no taking of taxi-s (unless bo bian) no handphone/pager, no clubbing, no movies, no CDs, no long hours of chatting on house phone, no branded clothes, no branded undies, no this and no that.

The only thing he do is to dye his hair black using cheap dyes sold in watson which cost less than $4 but u can dye ur hair for 2-3 times. Smoking habit had started since he was young. During his birthday, many parents hope that his children would bring him to expensive resturants like Ding Tai Feng, Crystal Jade, Sakae Sushi etc. But all the grandpa asked for was an ordinary japanese meal in a FOOD COURT which cost less than $8. And he would initiate to share the meal. See how thifty was he. All he wished for is hoping that his children would not encounter any difficulties in financial matters in the late future or when he is old & sickly, he would have enough money for doctors.

When he was admitted to the hospital, a scene would be spotted. Children and grandchildren of his who "disappeared" most of the time would "magically appear". Dont ask me how and dont ask me why.

He passed away suddenly on 2 Jan.. Those people whom i think wont weep, did that to my amaze. I could sense that the atmosphere was mixed up by "real emotions" & "good acting skills"

Those people who always claimed to be tight with money "suddenly" had money for those ritual. Dont ask me how and dont ask me why.

Those people who were very busy "suddenly" become very free also. Dont ask me how and dont ask me why.

I remembered when i first arrived at the wake, i saw one family of the relatives wore red. Yes. WHOLE FAMILY BLOODLY HELL WORE RED TO THE WAKE. RED!

WHEN UR FATHER PASSED AWAY. DO YOU WEAR RED/BLACK? USE UR COMMON SENSE DUMBASS.

IS BLACK

BLACK

not

RED~

GET IT? or when it's your turn, i shall wear red too~ =)

Enough of the past. Now, whoever who is interested in the money left by the grandpa OR you are unhappy about how pathetic your share of money is, DO NOT TRY TO DO ANYTHING FUNNY ANYMORE.

do kindly take note of that. I did not want to pin-point who is the who. If you are clever enough, i did not mention any names here. But do take note, i know who you are, and you know who you are. do not try to bully anyone when i am not around. So what he/she lives alone now? He/She is contented with her life & you should be contented with yours too.

Get your facts right and get ur ass off the money issue UNLESS YOU ARE THAT POOR TILL YOU COULD NOT AFFORD A CUP OF WATER OR A SLICE OF BREAD.

ARE YOU REALLY THAT IN NEED OF MONEY? YOU CAN APPLY FOR WELFARE FROM THE GOVT THEN..

P/S: And this is to everyone. Pls be truthful and filal to ur parents. Treasure who you have. Not when they left the world, you try ur mean ways to dig out how much money they had left.