The Reasons Given By the Guy Who CHeated on his GF for 5 times

More updates on the guy

Mr X's current/ex gf emailed Ms A. and Ms A, obviously relate the story to me and i find it damn fucking hilarious and L-A-M-E.

to protect Ms A and Mr X's current/ex gf, i shall just copy & paste part of the email to show you guys

and i am going to name Mr X's current/ex gf -- Ms Unlucky

"i really really love Mr X alot tt is y i have been tolerating his behaviour...i know u may think its stupid but a 3 and a half year relationship is really hard to let go... moreover, he is my first bf.. he always told me tt it hurt him badly to see me cry like tt each time i found out he cheated on me...but i dun understand y does he keeps hurting me like tt.... perhaps i can just relate to u the last time he cheated on me...

he went to surf blogs and went to add this girl called *Mary* to his msn... 1 day i went to his house to find a piece of paper with funny words scribbled on it. it says 'want to watch step up 2' etc. i asked him but he feign ignorance by saying tt it was a scrap piece of paper... anyway... i logged on to his msn (its how i got yr email...i know its really bad to do this but i just wanted to convince myself tt im thinking too much) and *Mary* left him a msg ' i will go out with u if u r above 180cm tall' i was really upset and angry when i saw tt and i confronted him... then he confessed...

being stupid..i forgave him.....it was abt 1 month later tt i realise tt he was still in contact with her thru sms, phone calls and msn.... once i saw his sms and he told me tt it was his colleague *John*(he did not save the no). i wondered y *John* had 2 phones... then i threatened to call and he even dared me to do so... but i did not in the end as i did not want to embarrased him. later i found out tt the sms was from this *Mary*. like in yr case, i ask him to choose 1 and he chose me...then he send her an sms saying tt they cant b together... the girl replied saying tt he is very fake...

i read her blog and really felt sorry for her...i think she really tot they had a chance but overnight...things just went terribly wrong for no reason... oh ya...*Mary* nv knew tt Mr X had a gf. i have no bad intentions when i tell u all these...but i just wan more pple to know what kind of person he is and not to fall for his tricks again...while i tell u this....i feel so stupid cos i know he is lying to me yet i close both eyes.. i really cant bear to let go and i have been crying ytd and tonight.

in my heart i wan to get back with him cos i love him so much. but all my frens tell me tt i shouldnt. can u pls help me by telling me how much lies he told to u? then at least i know lying is really a habit of his and that he can nv change. i am just wondering...did u really just broke up with yr bf and had no one to watch prom night with? did he show u my photo before? (he said maybe i looked different tt's y u din recognise me ytd..but he did show u my pic)

and i am also upset that abt the fact tt when i ask him when will he ever b faithful to a girl, his reply is ' when i matured'. obviously he is trying to take me for a ride. what if he nv matures? u should read all the letters he wrote to me each time i say we should break up cos of his infidelity. he is really good with his words i must say.

i would like to tell u the stupid reasons he gave me for his actions:

1. for snuggling up to u in the cinema - cos he missed snuggling up to me and wanted to relive the experience

2. for deleting the picture of me kissing him on his cheeks on his wallpaper each time he goes out with u - cos he was afraid tt it would upset u cos its an intimate picture and he knows tt u like him

3. for lying - cos he has low self esteem and wanted to find out if other girls would fall for him thanks for reading.

cheers,
Ms Unlucky"

*name changed to protect everyone*

WTF.. missed snuggling with Ms Unlucky then snuggled with Ms A? Walau eh, u take Ms A as what sia?! -____-"
for reason no 2, as far as i know about the story, Ms A nv go and take a look into Mr X's phone before. So Ms A will nv see the picture lo. Get a life!

the best part. LOW SELF ESTEEM
you already got your love then u wanna know other girls will fall for u for what? So, when the gal fall for u, you just say "Sry ar, i cant be with u cos i love Ms Unlucky. I am behaving in this way becos i have low self esteem and i wanna test if other girls will like me ornt"

that just sound so WRONG

and it reminded me of another thing. Ms A told me that Mr X told Ms Unlucky that he was NOT interested in my friend, Ms A. but before the show starts, Mr X actually kissed Ms A on her forehead?

that is simply so retarded.

A Guy Whom Cheat 5 times on His girl

ytd i heard of a TRUE story. Miss A was watching movie with her newly known guy friend who proclaim to have interest in her & said that he had already broke off with his ex for 3 mths and they could no longer be together. Miss A thought maybe she can give this a try. they went out before with Miss A's friend and everything seemed fine..

Only till a few days ago, Miss A was watching movie with the guy. Let's call him Mr X. and Ms A noticed that Mr X was sms-ing a contact on his hp "Darling"

Ms A thought nothing of it because once, Ms A was out with Mr X and the "darling" called and Mr X explained that he didnt change the contact because he still cant forget his ex.

The best part came. when the movie ended and Ms A was walking to the exit. A girl came to confront Mr X.

It turned out to be Mr X's "CURRENT" GF whom Mr X proclaimed to be "EX-GF"

Ms A stood there. Curiously looking at the girl. and the girl scolded the guy

if i remembered what my friend told me, the girl said something like

"why i am so stupid to let u cheat me the 5th time. You wanna tell me that i am not your girlfriend now right? but just now in the house what did you tell me? You told me she is not your type. You told me you love me. and why did u kiss me just now? if u dont love me, u kiss me for what?! Now you tell me, you still love me & wanna be with me ornt"

and Mr X replied "Yes."

Mr X's gf walked away after saying "you go send her home." and i forgot what is behind already.

Ms A just told Mr X " go and chase after her, i will go and take my things from your car and go back myself."

Thus Ms A did what she said and she went home herself.

at night, Ms A received a sms. from Mr X

"I'm sorry i lied to u, but the reason that my gf and i are on the verge of breaking up is cuz i cheated on her 5 times even though she forgave me everytime. I still cheated on her. Even though i wasn't interested in any of the girls, including you. My gf me tell u this even though i didn't want to, just to prove that i stil love her. I'm sorry"

end of story

missYlva's piece of advice : Mr X, pls.. if you really love your gf. dont hurt her anymore. 5 times. and she forgave u again & again. If i am the gf, i would have killed slap you. So, treausre your girlfriend okie =)

to Mr X's gf: if he still cheat on you again, forget him & move on. of course, the choice is up to u. i wont encourage couples to breakup. so, give him this last chance.

to Ms A: open your eyes =D

-the end-

out of boredom

was bored at home. reading the previous smses that i kept since May until now.

every SMS brings back pieces of memories...
and i was watching perfect cut 一切完美 on MobTV . remembering that time i went for audition for XiaoLi role. but wasnt suitable for the role as they needed a FAT one and i think partly maybe my skill sucks as i must pretend that i am talking to 2 person in the air in different directions, playing games on computer when i am actually standing alone in front of the cam. but still thanks WaWa production for giving me a chance to go for audition.

main point
i done a video today..

it is not good by the way but i am still happy as i done it myself

A Blog Created For....

was tidying pictures in my com. found a relatively nice picture. not trying to hint anything but just trying to share

"if a girl cried in front of u, means she cant take it anymore.
Hold her hand and she would stay with you."

"a girl wont cry easily. except in front of the person that she is able to let down herself."

"she cry not because she is weak or trying to gain pity. she cried because crying in silent isn't possible."

still got quite a few but i lazy to type. >.<" or i am afraid others would get the wrong idea that i am hinting something. when i started this blog in the past, i merely want a online diary for myself with some nice pictures. i started off with just merely 10 unique hits per day. poor thing right?

blame myself for not being a good writer, providing gd information for visitors.

blame myself that i am not as pretty as Xiaxue / Dawn Yang / Fann Wong.

blame myself that i do not possess those 36E-23-30 figure blame myself that i do not know how to use photoshop or whatever it is, i enjoy blogging.

REASON

i blog for myself

i realized that in the past, i am being over-friendly. to some other people. i seemed like a flirt? thinking of that, i cant have the best of everything. so, i will still be friendly.. but with limits.. maybe over-friendly is my thinking that i hope everyone would like me as a friend. but i guess sometimes it do backfires.

Nvm if you dont catch what i am saying. bcos i may not know what i am saying myself. i am lousy at expressing myself with words.

actions

yes, actions speaks louder.

ytd tried to clear my MSN list. WTH~ realized that some of the people. i do not know them personally. so what i done is to right-click and select "block" & "delete".

i lived for 21years. realizing that the same thing that i done will be different in different people's eyes. defaming, gossips. i had enough.

ironic. i dont even know what i am typing now. take it as rubbish.

sometimes...

i wish i can go back to the past

when i tell myself i am the happiest girl..

with the simple act of bubble tea
with the simple act of lending me your shoulder for me to rest in cab
and the list goes on......

whatever. i think i am producing alot of junk in this post.

before sleep must say "wan an~!"

good night all!!!

=)

I am going out after work tonight! woohoo~~

A Get-Fat Day

went to eat sakae sushi dinner buffet ytd to get more kilos on our body with Jinlian. she came to dhoby ghaut and we went to park mall .

we ate a little more than this. and the auntie waitress treated us like a noob. she kept telling red plates would be chargable for like 2-3 times?

Auntie, let me tell u. "Ylva & JinLian ain't noobs."

and when she clear our plates, she said " no food wastage." but that crabstick handroll Jinlian commented that it taste abit weird. she cant expect us to eat it down right? when the manager collect my plate, he didnt say anything even when he saw a crabstick in the bowl of udon.

even the manager doesn't care. -____-"

i am just abit irritated only luh. haiz..

forget about her. let's eat! haha.. and camwhore!
going to watch my bangbangtang 棒棒堂 so i end this post with this picturewahahahaha~!

This guy scares us by lying flat under my block

I was walking home after work.. when i saw this

was quite scare that he was being murdered or just jumped from the building *touchwood* saw a malay uncle downstairs with his family, deciding whether to call the police ornt so in e end, the auntie called. while waiting for ambulance & police to arrive, the uncle tapped on the guy's shoulder to wake him up but to no avail. but i saw his stomach is breathing. so at least it's not the worst that i imagined.police came.. they tap on him and tap his face to wake him up.. after 2 min..phew~ turned out that he is drunk. uncle, pls dont scare us again okie. I cant take the blow one.

anyway, turned out he is superb drunk. until 2 policemen need to carry him up and let him lie against the wall. Poor uncle. he even said he got no home. =(

if you happened to be the uncle's family, pls. take care of him

anyway, this happens at sembawang.

SAKURA~

Went to treat Sakura Buffet with Lave & her husband. we ate alot till we were damn bloody full sia =x

took some very random pics. then headed off to heeren to walk and went to wisma to wait for michael to come. didnt meet him for ages. (except bumping into each others in orchard twice this year) then went to cineleisure for some neoprints. and saw darryl.. -___-" darryl said that i've grown shorter. *ahem* my height is always 168cm what =(

today didnt go for work. wasn't feeling well and i woke up at 3pm with a msg "dont you think time pass very fast today". i agreed with that cos i tot i woke up to go to the toilet at 11am. i didnt know that i can sleep for 4hours more when i buried my head in my pillows. i got 4 pillows for me to bury my head. hahaha!

Didnt manage to book practical lesson for HengYeong at SSDC site. don't have the time slot that he requested. dropped him a text. hope he reply soon.

黑糖玛奇朵 AGAIN?!

Yes, i rewatched 黑糖玛奇朵 AGAIN?! since last weekend until now. i cant help but have the urge to rip one part out. reason: it is very touching.. i think i can tear everytime i watch that part.

isn't this sweet =))

Lave 21sat bdae with VIDEO!

Yesterday met up with darry & hengyeong 1st because darry is going back to his camp.

so how? anyone want to take darry as her bf?

LOL

anyway, arrived at the chalet with hengyeong and we started to play some stupid games like BIG 2.5. very random forfeits. i got one which is to drink beer + chilli. trust me. that gross. anyway, hengyeong got those lucky forfeits. is to go to next chalet room to shake hands or take a picture with random strangers.

one word. UNFAIR!

jackson got to drink butter + curry + syrup drink well mixed up by me & jeffrey. anyway, this jeffrey is jackson's bro.

had really damn lots of fun. some other videos are too gross lazy to post up. =x

and hengyeong says " pls buy my butt"this is my bestie! haha. she is the girl that i grow up with. know me inside out. after all , we knew each other for 8 years. and this cutie girl is our her daughter. cute right? haha! i forbid her to call me auntie. LOL..


ya. i know it's her birthday but i still wish to tell her that her cake is ugly. LOL.. what a cake with those blue cream and cars. and to make the matter worse, my hair + face got those blue shits on it luh! that is because of jeffrey. we were in the room and he got tricked by xuefen. and she came up with those cream. no matter how loud i scream and hide behind jeffrey, i still have those shits on my face.

but jeffrey got it worse. LOL.. so after that i went to make yeow xuan and i ran to & fro outside our chalet room. and everyone were looking at us and i fell when yeow xuan drag me. LOL.. and my leg got one blue black because i knocked onto the bed when xuefen was trying to get those horrible cream on my face.

and of cos, hengyeong got the cream too.

after that we went to downtown for game time. then my uncle drove me & hengyeong home. during the ride home, i chatted with mr cow. that's all!

MOE is going to demolish my primary school

Actually i didnt really wanna blog today. but i got no choice as i got news that my primary school is going to be demolished. I called my ex Discipline Master Mr Low to confirm and he verified with me too. WTH?! i still remember how the school song is sung.



Peixin Primary School School Song


Let's all excel in work and work
Strive to be better everyday
Respect for teachers and elders too
Be loyal to school and country.


We'll learn new skills in Peixin school
Let's obey and keep its rules.
Knowing that we have to give our best
To meet the challengers ahead


Towards Excellence, Towards Excellence
Towards Excellence we'll strive!

Towards Excellence, Towards Excellence.
We'll keep our school flag flying high.


I just got this bad news from my primary school friend derek


this is what he texted " sad news here. Peixin is going to merge with yishun pri. the new budiling after PRIME is going to be renamed as yishun pri. With all uniform attire, motto, vision, all following current yishun pri's."


i still vividly remember some of my teachers. Mr Ong Eng Chek - my primary 1 maths teacher who told my mum that i am a clever student just that i tend to be very careless that's why my maths always got 90+ but not 100. This comment resulted me from a caning from my mum.


Mr Edwin Lye Teck Hee - who appointed me to be as a group leader in primary 2 and was extremely paitient towards my bad behaviour. he was married to my pri5 english teacher Ms Pauline Chan.


Mr Low Kim Suan - who appointed me to be a prefect. but i could not take it when i was in primary 5 and just threw him the tag and say " i quit." during morning assembly time.


Mr Cheong - my music & chinese teacher. it was he who made me have the chance to perform for 4 years on stage during chinese new year. perhaps this is why i love stage since young. He was also the teacher that taught me how to play Er-Hu but i was extremely unkind towards him during certain days of my primary 4 life.


of course, Mrs Irene Heng. my principal during my days. she was extremely good to me


the canteen auntie who sold vege rice taught me a new way of eating chee cheong fun ( with light soya sauce & sesame oil)


the noodles auntie that always treated me fishballs.


and alot more


my laughter, tears in this school


the tortises that we fed in the pond, the chickens we fed with the wang zai biscuits when i was in primary 1. the fitness corner when we played scissors, paper , stone. the basketball court when we play catching~


the fearful dentist corner with the fierce & black woman whom i secretly curse that her teeth will rot when she extract my milk tooth.


the cleaners who ensured we got clean toilets


the classmates i have over the years. xiuwen, yeeshang, olivia, derek, esmond, youfu, jingwen, raymond, hongda, junmin, weihao, luwen, angelia, grace, jialun, priscilla, qiying, meixi, peixi, sim xin yu, tan xin yu, chia shu ting, yeo shu ting, li xuan, mindice, li ning, xing ye, peiqin, sisi, kelvin tan, jin yuan and etc etc etc.. not forgetting my pri 1 classmate, Liang Teck.


the childish arguement between me & some of the guys in the class. the feeling of liking someone. the friendship built over the years. some memories had been withdrawed from my mind. derek quoted some to me days ago and i was like "hahahhahahaha. really?! i did that last time! so childish"


but nevertheless, this place holds my most memorable & happy memories vividly in my mind. i love the school, i love the memories.


but.....................


it will be gone soon

Thai Massage

went to Bugis for Thai Massage with HengYeong just now. the service is not bad actually. u guys may try. but be careful. do not enter those shop that give extra service luh~

this is the shop we go. haha.. things are very fun when u go out with your best friend. i duno why. but pls do not misunderstand that hengyeong is my bf or whatsoever. we had been friends for 8years. just purely friends. =)saw this selling at Bugis . 3 for $10 only so i bought 3. e other one is my favourite cartoon character the doraemon~ the colour lit attracted me actually. went to buy this ring @ bugis village. normally those ring that sold outside is too loose for my finger but this one fit like it's fated to be mine. so .. i bought itthe rich hengyeong bought 2 necklaces that costed him $67 after discount. it was actually $80. haha. we can haggle for price well i think. LOL. this is one of his necklace. not bad right?

tomorrow is another day at work.

anyway, i had been thinking this 2 days.. trying hard to digest and figure out everything and my decision still remain the same. even though i feel that the distance is like 10,000km away. but that is just purely what i think at that moment.

for now, i will still leave things as it is. let it run by its nature. whatever will be, it will be. but i will still accompany you~ =)

A quick update at work

Today i woke up late for work! was supposed to work full shift & ended up i came for afternoon shift instead.

heng that my supervisor still give me chance. but there goes my $30+ OT pay =(
tomorrow is off day and i bet i am going to sleep like a pig because sat i am working morning and sunday i got chalet..

i just type alot chunk of rubbish just now and i just deleted everything. LOL
am still wondering what to buy for the bitch xuefen birthday.
anyway, i think this few days i have not been spending enough time on net surfing about blog.
i missed the blog fight between Xiaxue & Dawn Yang! anyone know what did Xiaxue type in the 1st place? kindly let me know okie!

argh~ i think i am abit outdated in the blogging blogosphere. think i must really blog and blog and blog more. best if i can come up with a blog post everyday.

hmm. and steven lim smsed me to ask me to watch channel5 tonight at 8pm but too bad i am working luh. so if u guys are free. tune in to channel5 ba~

A night of workout

Ytd HengYeong came to find me in the evening time for workout in the gym. he brought me to the sembawang yatch club to enjoy the FREE gym + jacuzzi.

haha. see. the gym only have we 2. LOL.. and we just do some simple workout. before waiting for gym aircon to cool the room, we played some cheap arcade. really very cheap!CHEAP RIGHT!this is the jacuzzi that we enjoy chatting and jokes in it. the bad point that it is abit cold. =xfound this teeshirt in Zara and immediately Ervi asked me to find a teeshirt with a cow -___-"and tommy's son stared at JiaSheng..LOL